I guess I am not able to really embrace the idea of trying to blend what is best for CPC (job, income) and what is best for the marriage. Because really (and if you are a new person to this site PLEASE don't listen to this, lol!) Mrs. CPC made a MESS when she had her affair. The mess existed pre affair but she made it an absolute sh*t storm. She has been given a second chance but that chance doesn't come without LOTS of hard work.
I understand things are fragile but I guess I think it takes a LONG time to recover from such fragility. In the meantime take care of yourself doing what is best as an individual... time for Mrs CPC to put her money where her mouth is.
It sound cold and unloving and it probably is to a degree. I guess it's hard to know how much fragility a union can take once it has been destroyed. Maybe that is the million dollar question!
