TH, like I said I can only lead for me right now, I am living with a buddy and 4 dogs, W has a better "home" for our children right now. I am leaving law enforcement to get a new company off the ground. I have a lot to get done, and I need to focus on that. Truly my kids are better where they are at right now. I need to make more time for them, but in the best interest of the kids, what W has done is best for them right now. Things do happen for a reason, I did not jump on any rental which looking back now I would have been stuck with a large home, large payment by myself. So that happened for a reason.

Tonight will be the first night I will have the kids, w will have a break. I feel I took the lead here, made plans for it and didn't ask the W she did not seem to mind and did not have a fit about it. I will not ask what she is doing nor will I ask tomorrow.