13 yrs is a LONG time. That dog is a member of the family. I think you are showing her that you are a stand-up guy and will put aside your differences and come through for your family in a crises. It shows strength and honor in my book.
I hope your dog pulls through and has an easy fall/winter. maybe next summer won't be as hot.
Also, glad to hear the kids like your new digs. maybe if the court reverses the living arrangements you guys could just swap.
See ya buddy.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs