Temptation is all around all of us each day. One can't really let the possibility of temptation rule decisions that need to be made on logic.

Divorced or not you will still need a way to support yourself and your daughter. In order to do that you will need a job.

Temptation or not you and your W have a LONG way to go and it's reality to at least recognize the outcome has not yet been predicted.

Temptation and unstable R's suck. Big time. It would all suck way more if you were without work and steady income.

What job is best for you no matter what the outcome of your R?