Yep, and conversely, noticing and complimenting a woman's shoes is supposed to be flattering. But that would involve me knowing the differences in women's shoes...
Easy, you never compliment the article of clothing. You compliment the person.
"You have great style/taste in shoes."
"I have always admired how you can put a outfit together."
"You sure can make a pair of shoes look sexy."
"Only you could make a black dress look that stunning."
You need to brush up your flirting chops.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
