The W texted me and asked if I wanted her to drop off the kids at my house after she picks them up? I said i am in the city, I will pick them up as originally planned. She did not respond. I did this because as TH says, I cant keep letting her be in the drivers seat, was it just a nice gesture on her part? maybe maybe not, but I basically just told her lets stick to whatwe agreed to earlier and left it at that.