Originally Posted By: Missher
Play this very close to the hip, do not engage Goober's W, otherthan "thanks" or "that is good".


That was pretty close. She gave me the info; I asked a couple follow ups and asked her what she would do IF he started talking about reconciliation. That she had to prepare...in case. Reminded her "we have never spoken" and that I had to get to a meeting.

Originally Posted By: Missher

Do not contact MIL or any of her family


Sorry, should have said "simple drive by". I'd never call or engage them.

Originally Posted By: Missher
Now is the time to shine, you are Mr. Cool, Confident, Attractive CD Bear. Now is the time for a little mystery, now is the time for her to wonder about you.


Yep. Mysterious; catnip; confident; calm. It's easier when I feel I've earned some respect and have "hand". Probably why I feel the detachment more. Not a self-righteous "hand" but a "luxury of time" hand. "Luxury of MY decision" hand. Does that make any sense?

Originally Posted By: Missher

(What is the table limit on my bets?)


I don't know about the table but I'm checking to see if my points will fly me to NC to buy some beer. Should work out well 'cause I'm trustin that it will be winter here.