CG, I'm so glad you checked in too. Thank you. I want to thank everyone for being there for me today. Actually got a little misty eyed from all of the support today. What a wonderful group of people here. I cannot thank all of you enough. You have no idea how much it means to me for all of your support. Wow, so many people helping me today. It's good to hear from everyone although I wish it was under better circumstances.

CG, one again I agree with everything you said. First, I do need to calm down and get my emotions in check before I do anything. As far as consequences I guess that's what I'm thinking she needs to see now. She needs to take some responsibility for helping. I have been doing so much to try ti sell this house. I even called the banks to negotiate them taking less on the mortgage so we can lower the price. I've led on this.

You're right about closure being more than just a few C sessions but it would still be a part of the process for me. Why doesn't she take these opportunities I've given for closure for herself too?

I like your quote about anger being a stepping stone but not a road block.

As far as what to do to help me. Well, you guys are already doing it. Just being there for me. Letting me just vent sometimes. Calming me down, being a voice of reason, giving advice and swinging a 2x4 when needed.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch