Originally Posted By: CD
And it doesn't change what I'm doing or why. In fact, I think this news has increased my detachment.


Originally Posted By: ericmsant
And this ^^^^ is key.
Stay the course.....


I am reminded of Missher's line "The smallest consistent behaviour..."

Originally Posted By: ericmsant

...what are you going to do when W starts to text YOU? Have you figured that one out? Is the old CD going to appear? Are you going to stop your progress? Think about that...


Though old CD isn't that far in the past, I am different already. I have to be VIGILANT to keep him in the past. Slow down. Be still. Listen more; talk less.

I have to stay true to ME (or what I have learned so far about me) and really think about whether I need or want her back in my life. Is she healthy for me?

Originally Posted By: ericmsant
Now is a good time to sit back, wait and see what happens.


Missher- "TIME"
Wonka -"Watch the parade"
PEI "Be still"

All of the above. This news actually makes it easier to do all of them. I feel quite relaxed. Odd feeling considering....