I know. Hard to accept but I know.

You second suggestion is good. No doubt that shows strength and confidence. How attractive is it though to someone as far gone as her. Does it matter?

I'm not sure that I have it in me to tell her I'm ok with her dating and have fun. Too many thoughts running through my mind right now. Gr8 is right that maybe the best thing to do is not contact her for a day or two. She still hasn't gotten back to me about the house. Where in the world are her priorities is what I want to know. She's more worried about her dating website than the getting back to me about the house which can still go into foreclosure unless we decide about an issue regarding the bank.

Must be nice to be her right now. Not a care in the world and life is grand. Wish I was the one who left her sometimes.

Another reason I thought of as to why I've been afraid to let her go...because I know she won't come back.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch