I'm back and looking for insight

[the girl]

Lauraoh, have you seen the book Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage by the Misja brothers?

Regarding sex, forgive me for not having read all your posts, but do you know if he has a porn problem? My H had a raging online porn problem for a few years, where he constantly refused to have sex with me and was either explosively angry or sulking.

I knew he looked at porn, but I didn't know the extent or the content. It was too difficult for me to face. I just blindly trusted him. Now I won't be fooled, and I face it though it is like getting a root canal.