robx will you look at my sit and hit me with a 2 x 4 for all the wrong things I have done?
LOL!
Nice! It always amazes me that people ask to be hit with 2x4's! It makes me think that most of you know what you are doing is wrong or off course, you just want to hear someone else say it ;-)
Here's a quick tip: live a great life, a life that you truly enjoy, in the end how many lives do you think you get to live? Wouldn't you rather live a good, fulfilling life, something that others would admire and want to emulate and be a part of?
If your spouses want to join you in your great life, they will, if they don't, consider it their loss (seriously it is their loss), they will sit in their corners, mumbling and grumbling and acting pissy towards you because of your ability to be happy and move on with your life without dying inside & crying 24/7 because of the loss of the relationship.
Read that last part a few times and determine which person you are: the happy one moving on with their great life or the one sitting in the corner being angry at the world with the "life isn't fair" attitude.
