My God, if Goodbye My Lover (Blunt) played while I was anywhere with my W in our current sitch, fuhgettaboutit. How did you hold it together, man?
My guess is W will say "no, not ready for that yet." but I don't think the asking will set things back much if I avoid being all melty man when asking her and act like the turn down isn't that big a deal.
NEVER go all "melty man" with a spouse who's still wayward. That's for us sensitive guys to do in the bathroom at 2 in the morning, with the exhaust fan on, and your head buried in a big fluffy bath towel.
