I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

So I have a question...how do you not get 'attached' to someone while dating? For me I end up investing way too much of myself emotionally...and then I start to freak out that I'm going to have to deal with another heartbreak when she decides to walk.

I think
1) you don't spend too much time with them- one date per week or evety 2 weeks
2) don't talk on the phone too much
3) if you find you like her more than she likes you, end it!

So how do you go into the 'dating' world saying well I like this girl a lot but I can't get emotionally involved?

see above

BUT ROMEO, ultimately you can just wait to date when your heart is healed and can handle a broken heart again!That's my plan now...when I spent time with zoobrew, I was high on feel good hormones. This high lasted several days and then faded if I didn't talk to him or see him. But I would have fallen for him if I saw him more frequently!