You are all correct. Robx thanks for getting back on my sitch. W has called me 3 times this morning i did not answer. I texted her about 2 hours later and asked her what she needed? she keeps asking about stuff at the house, things she can look for herself. I simply said I brought over what I could, and that she can get the rest of her stuff. I then asked her where the kids will be at 4? I am going to pick them up and take them to church and let them spend the night.
She finally is posting on FB again talking about taking on the world, wanted more kids and the fact our S is impatient and school and comments how he is just like his Daddy with impatience. Go figure.
She is on her fantasy cloud right now, and as it does eat at me a bit, I have to ignore it, this is all still relatively new, and she feels she has control, I need to take the control back. I believe the only way I can lead right now is to plan stuff with the kids, and just enjoy my time with them. I need to stop focusing on her, and as TH says stop letting her tell me what I am doing right and wrong.
