The time she MOST warmed up to me recently was during the 2 weeks that I was over at her place sleeping under the same roof taking care of her post-surgery. That's when all the hugging started again (after the first week of being there). Now I'm back at the house and the hugging has stopped. Thoughts?
My thoughts on this are that you went overboard. She hugged and you embraced that hug, the extra massages and the flowers were you going above her level of 'warming up'. It came on too strong perhaps. Embrace it when she wants to give you a hug, just don't try to take it up a notch.
Agree with this. ^
"Escalation" is dangerous in geopolitics, and it's dangerous in DBing. Best to mirror your adversary, and leave 'em wanting more.
