Getting a job is going to do you wonders. For you your job is getting a job, so thats 9-5pm and doing some work at night.
Don't worry about the flack from your wife can't control it, and after this is what you see you had for a partner, I'd hardly call it a partnership.
I'm sure in the future, you'd want a lady who is going to look at you the same with or without a job, and maybe even take some of her time to help you find a job or to use her contacts to do it.
We all got the harsh lesson. I know that my lady is out there, but for now its friends with people I can do that with.
