Thank you SA....I'm working on protecting myself. Trying to renegotiate my mortgage...to reduce payments and to consolidate all our debts so I can somehow separate our finances and take myself off of his credit cards.

My friend and her D is living with me now...she is paying me sizable sum of money every month for rent...utilities etc. She will be staying until end of November....I was hoping to put that money away...to have a cushion.

Last week I received a cell phone bill for $1,000. I almost flipped. Big chunk of it for international roaming charges when he was in Europe with OW....and it wasn't for business. When I emailed him about it he was very surprised and apologetic and "didn't know how that was possible".....

He is back in town, just received an email asking to take D to her lesson this afternoon. On one hand I'm glad that he wants to see her, on the other hand shouldn't he be bloody working this afternoon after taking 2 weeks off?


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO