Stop asking to do things for her. Your wife can ask for help if she needs it.
I understand. should have asked: How long have the dogs been alone since you left?
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This combined with her staying up at night on the computer getting a finger workout while you sleep and not ML for over a year is not good. What intel do youy have?
This one is more complicated than it looks. My intel tells me that there is no PA, but is is a possiblility that it's a EA. They have been friends and clients for years.
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Seriously you are worried about your dogs? The dogs can handle it.
Yes, I am a little and I am worried about the whole thing. The purpose of the vacation was suppose to be to get away from work and home and relax. Have family members pop in for day trips and read books.
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That would make you look silly.
You're right. Should just tell her to have a good time.
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So you can approve?
What choice do I have - I have to agree with her, don't I?
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You need to do some intel gathering, talk to a L and have a plan - how to let her go.
I have beem doing plenty of intel gathering. Stopped for awhile because besides silly friendly texts and meetings over a drink with friends, there was nothing there.
I am working on a plan, but it's not easy to come up who I think should leave. I don't trust her with the house and the dogs but it's part of the single life she needs to cope with. On the other hand I won't mind at all to stay with it all and let her leave.
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ps She can get you to jump any time she wants by telling you the dogs need you. Let her care for the dogs.
So should I tell her that I cannot do the swap as I originally agreed to. Reason? Can't take a day off? Or be honest and say that I do not think it is appropriate for me to be used as a delivery boy?
