Had a good night. When I came home, W apologized for reading my emails. Said she wasn't looking so much at what my mom was saying, but wanted to know what I was telling people. I had suspected that was really the case. I listened to her, validated, and said that if she had any questions, I'd be open and honest with her.
She also apologized for the lingerie show; said she didn't mean to be a cocktease, send me the wrong signals etc. I said I understood she was worried how I'd take it. Told her that I thought she looked great, and the she looked like she was having fun doing it.
I was making dinner for the whole family, and made her some margaritas (I'm a beer guy). She talked about her day without needing any prompting from me. Helped out when she saw I was juggling too many things.
After dinner we slipped out to the patio while the girls watched a TV show. Had a great talk about both of our work days. Beautiful evening, Fall is coming quickly.
I told her that I was going dancing on Thursday night, and that I wanted her to come with me. She said that she had hoped to go out for drinks with her coworkers since a colleague was leaving for another job in Alabama; but that she'd skip that and go dancing instead. Warned me that she'd probably be horrible; I told her I would too, but that'd be the fun of it.
Watched a movie together, she gave me a back rub. Then to bed.
Glad to see you started writing again. Guess I didn't follow through on my threat to hound you about it, but You did it anyway. How's it coming?
I decided to go old school since spending so much time on a computer has been a problem for me in my relationships. So instead of using a word processor, I'm writing the dang novel in longhand on legal pads. Makes you really think before you throw down some words...
I told her that I was going dancing on Thursday night, and that I wanted her to come with me. She said that she had hoped to go out for drinks with her coworkers since a colleague was leaving for another job in Alabama; but that she'd skip that and go dancing instead. Warned me that she'd probably be horrible; I told her I would too, but that'd be the fun of it.
Find out where they are going out to. Stop by with your wife for a drink. Be "on" - make sure you talk to all her female friends, let them know you are going out dancing that night, compliment your wife in front of them, then leave with her early to go dancing. Talk about your day in he car. Smell great, get a new shirt, play a new CD in your car. No R talk, be interesting and focus on your wife. Make her feel like she is the most important woman in the world. Let her come to you. Get it?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Be "on" - make sure you talk to all her female friends, let them know you are going out dancing that night, compliment your wife in front of them
All superb advice, esp. the last part about complimenting her in front of them. ALL women love this and really love when it's done in front of our friends!!!! Do it, Pin!
Be "on" - make sure you talk to all her female friends, let them know you are going out dancing that night, compliment your wife in front of them
All superb advice, esp. the last part about complimenting her in front of them. ALL women love this and really love when it's done in front of our friends!!!! Do it, Pin!
And Soleil wasn't sure what a Cat Whisperer was.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I told her that I was going dancing on Thursday night, and that I wanted her to come with me. She said that she had hoped to go out for drinks with her coworkers since a colleague was leaving for another job in Alabama; but that she'd skip that and go dancing instead. Warned me that she'd probably be horrible; I told her I would too, but that'd be the fun of it.
Find out where they are going out to. Stop by with your wife for a drink. Be "on" - make sure you talk to all her female friends, let them know you are going out dancing that night, compliment your wife in front of them, then leave with her early to go dancing. Talk about your day in he car. Smell great, get a new shirt, play a new CD in your car. No R talk, be interesting and focus on your wife. Make her feel like she is the most important woman in the world. Let her come to you. Get it?
First real 'date' with my wife since our wedding. That's so pathetic! I'm treating it just like I would if we had just met. I'm excited, but going to try and be as calm as I can.
