You think I shouldn't tell her that I know she's on the dating website? Really? Wow, I don't know how I can not address this with her?

She has been sneaky several times during this S and I haven't called her on things. I think it's time to call her on this.

I don't see how it could make things any worse? I don't see it if I don't say anything as her saying, "well, he didn't say anything, maybe he did change. That's nice but I'm still going to date."

If I confront her on it then she knows I don't accept it. I stop taking care of everything which are consequences for her. Shouldn't she have consequences for her actions?


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch