TH and Gr8, I hear you about not knowing for sure until I truly let her go. I just don't know if my W would care or not.
That's exactly right, and it shouldn't matter. Your actions are still done with her in mind.
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I think if I dated OW now my W would just see it as trying to get back at her.
Why would she think this??? As far as she knows you don't know she's on the dating site, so keep it that way.
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