I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

*I am such a hippocrate. OK so I heard from zoobrew yesterday. He texted and said his cell service didn't work in the mountains. Then he said he met with his exG and it was "hard stuff." And he said he needed time to process and he didn't want to string anyone along. So I figured that might happen and said "I understand! It must be hard, etc. etc. Can I get my ring back this week?" and here is the funny part.

So we start off texting logistics...when and where. I mentioned "Wendy's parking lot." He says "Which Wendy's?" and I replied "lol! Sorry- the one on ___" Then I said "10:45" and he said "No can do. How about 10:46?"
ANd then
"oh, and wear the low rise black mesh bikini I got you in Cabo. You know the one! lol"

I say "in that case, we better meet in the alley! And how did you know I like mesh? Ok I'll be good!"

he says "The alley it is!lol"

So let's just say I will be looking cute,wearing a tight t-shirt with denim capris and my hair looks INCREDIBLE! (sorry, but I rarely like my hair when they get it done and she did a terrific job!)

And I am proud of myself because originally he said "I will call you tomorrow and we can figure out where to meet" and I said "let's meet here at this time." I didn't want to talk on the phone--DISS, zoobrew! Of course I am so curious about what happened but if I won't see him again, why does it matter? Although the way he described it sounded like they are either brekaing up or taking a longer break. whatever! I am busy.


Oh and I did sign up for another single parent meetup on Sept 4 (Sat) which is a dueling piano event....unfortunately there is somethign about "intuitive matchmaking" going on, too! ugh...