I suppose it does happen, but I don't think I could ever understand someone who, having gone through the sheer h*ll of being the victim of infidelity and the resulting destruction of their M and family at the hands of an OP, then commits the same crime later against another family, to become an OP themselves.
Hmmmmm....guess I should introduce you to my X's new wife! LOL And she did it all with a smile on her face while telling everyone they were "just friends." Guess that makes it ok. Ha
Sadly my D12 hs figured it all out. And recently she said something to me about why she couldn't at least have a decent person for a step-mom....oh yeah, a decent person wouldn't have done what she did! Out of the mouths of babes! (I never said anything to her about the affair, but he was dumb enough to bring the kids around her before we separted, and my D has recalled some inappropriate things. So when she asked I responded as honestly as I could.)
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
