I got smacked with this yesterday. It seems to come natural to the WAW.
Do you understand why? They are out in front of you on the detachment curve. To do DB well you need to get ahead of them on the curve. Accept the fact you are already dead.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.