I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

Hi you guys! Sorry for the absence- I have been busy GALing! Not sad!

Monday- went into class, went to store and park, worked out, Pilates, crashed early.

Tuesday- got my hair done, arranged pics for S, worked out, Pilates, went to store, went to dinner and movie with my teacherfriends from the playgroup and I told them about stbxh's A.

Today- working in my classroom, GETTING MY RING BACK*, taking items to my grandma, maybe taking S on an evening walk (if time permits)

So about telling the 3 teacher friends about stbxh's A. All I said was
"The reason we are getting divorced is because stbxh had an affair with a coworker. They started off as friends, my gut told me otherwise, he agreed to end the friendship but didn't. They started an affair during my pregnancy. Meanwhile, we went to counseling but he never changed his behavior so I suspected something was still going on and I looked up his cell records and found her number. He is choosing to divorce me and is living with her and her daughter now. He sees S a lot and is a good dad. I am really shocked because I always thought you could tell if someone would cheat. ANd I always thought I would instantly divorce someone if they did. But when it starts off as "just friends" and you have a baby and your H was a good man and your marriage wasn't terrible....well, it changes things."

I asked them to not say anything about why I am divorced because it is embarrassing. They said I shouldn't be embarrassed but they understood. And they understood why I didn't want to divorce him and wanted to try to stay in the marriage. And that was just about all we said about it! It was a lot easier than I thought but I DID have tequila and a beer before I told them, lol!

Oh and we saw "Switch." I liked the characters and the story was sweet, but pretty predictable and slow paced!