I just don't think it's helpful. Not any more helpful than reading the horoscopes column to try to figure things out.
We all have a host of 'traits' that--if we put ourselves under a microscope of insecure introspection while armed with a few books on psychology and little experience dealing with people who are suffering serious problems--we would wind up diagnosing ourselves with all sorts of weirdness.
I don't think it is productive.
Communication, intimacy, etc might be productive.
Finding one's own happiness with one's self might be productive.
How do we communicate? Actions, gestures, expressions, language, touch.
How do we become happy?
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