One of the things that I discoverd is the concept of co-dependence and how my reactions to my wife pushing my "hot buttons" was part of the problem in our relationship. When I stopped reacting in the usual way, she had to find a different way to "relate to/interact with" me.
YAH - I just realized recently that my H is ver codependent. He frequentl plays off of my emotions and too have tried to be careful how I react and respond to him. Are you finding success?
I think we are probably all codependent to some extent and some people know how to push our buttons better than others. I've been trying to read up on this and boundaries just recently.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.
