PEI, I read your post and I have to say, I'm very impressed. I think you are absolutely on the right track. It hurts, but it is needed for you to set AND enforce your boundaries regardless of the outcome. You make your choices and your spouse makes their own choices. Freedom to choose, freedom to lose. Sad for those around us that pay the price, but can be a learning experience as well that really helps. We can't know until later.
Go get 'em.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
