No offense, but this I don't think you are going to get far with this arm-chair psychologist stuff.
Borderline and Narcissist? Look, if he really had a full-blown personality disorder like BPD or NPD you wouldn't be adding the qualifier 'traits' to begin with.
What this amounts to is basically "Mind reading", and you cannot do it. I don't care if you employ an arsenal of behavioral science jargon, use psuedo-science to try and divine his thoughts, or resort to outright superstition... the results are the same: you aren't doing anything but trying to read his mind.
This means... communication (for whatever reason) is not that good between you two.
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