Looking for help with WAW

[gr8 day 2B alive]

mza8,

sorry your feeling so upset. we both know going into this process that there would be a chance that it we would not reconcile with our Ws.

I struggled the past few days and coach and puppy set me stright.

My W and I are going to mediation in September. She said she will be serving me. I am OK with that.

I actually feel better now that I dropped the rope. I can now comminucate better with her about the kids. And I am showing her I am a great father and a great guy.

Have I given up??? Not really but I can't let her consume the way I live me life.
If it works out, great if it doesn't OK. I(We, sorry Goose)have better ourselves for a new R.

If you say anything to her about the dating site it will only push her away more and there is reall no reason to do it.

Don't let your anger come out about her actions.

Believe these feelings will pass. I found out my W slept with someone else. It bothered me at first but I can't control that so I don't worry about it. It's just sex.

Hang in there.