She tried to blame me for her experience. I asked her what it was I did wrong, and she was not able to articulatete it.
This is interesting. I get this from my wife AND kids sometimes.
I think this is projection or deflection of some kind. She is pissy and puts that blame on you. You seemed to stand up for yourself a little by asking her to articulate. I think you need to show a little more back bone and let her know SHE needs to take some responsibility for her happiness or unhappiness and at the very least, if there is a problem with you, she needs to take the responsibility of effectively communicating it.
It seems she is used to you egg shelling. So much so that she doesn't even have to communicate, just pout and your mind reading takes care of the rest. That's not fair to any spouse.
HER mother denying HER the chance to ballroom dance is not your fault.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
