Interesting manouvres Cas! Funny it was Xmas that started to rattle Mr Rabbit too, I know Mr Cas has done some Xmas's on his own but whilst still in the fog or LLL (la la land) as we call it on the alt!

I totally understand how you feel about moving forward slowly but keeping things calm and not spooking him, I ended up rereading my first thread after reading Seeking Answers kind comments on my Encouragement thread, the things that stood out were my impatience at keeping all those fine lines together without sending Mr Rabbit scuttling hell for leather back to his burrow, but at the same time keeping the home burrow appealing but not looking like a cake factory ..

One thing I'd say is keep your boundaries firm (totally agree with No Mrs OW) and make Mr Cas do the work.. He is obviously getting a bit brave (or stupid) mentioning his intentions infront of the kids, so I'd say he's pretty serious, but scare sh*tless and really knows he mucked up and is being careful, so use any time to validate forward movements if at all possible! Dont let the urge to get Xmas all perfectly sorted push this any faster than it would have gone if in the middle of summer!

Anyway scuse my waffling still no a 100% well so not always coherant (())

____________________________

W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!