I don't know if the therapist is pro-marriage. The only thing I do know is that he practices "Brief Therapy." H says he's no longer attracted to me and there's so much water under the bridge that he's not hopeful. I think he is seeing a "happy" future without us and I've read up on Brief Therapy and that's what scares me. This is all new and so raw. He has an appointment on Monday. H said he wished he wouldn't have told me anything and in his words "faked me out" until my daughter turned 18 and then he would have left. I am glad he shared that insight. That gave me the opportunity to tell him in order for me to consider allowing that to happen, I would need proof that he attends his appointment.
I highly suspect he has a OW but could never obtain proof no matter how hard I tried.
I cant talk to him because I can tell that I am puhsing him away.Im judt trying to get through this week and be hopeful. Not feeling so good right now.
Me 40 H 42 S 16 D 15 Together for 23 years Married 18 Blow up 8/21/10 DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10
