You are at the right place, there is a lot of good advice here and people to pick you up when you are down. I'm really good at the sulking and depressed part of this, seems like every day there is something new to help me stay that way. But, there are so many stories here of people who have been through this and saved their marriage, or people who went through this and saved themselves. Go get Divorce Remedy (I like it better than Divorce Busting), read them, read the first chapters here on line. One person can save a marriage.
Dagny
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW
