Blindsided, Just served with papers!

[TimeHeals]

I hope I am not being too harsh. I just want you to have a great relationship with you kids.

I don't think we can be too harsh with him. He's always waiting to see what his wife's next move will be, and she is busy thinking up and acting out next moves (leading).

He needs to stop waiting for her to decide everything, or he's not going to like the results.

To you DSH: stop worrying about what your wife is going to do, and stop taking all of your direction from her. Be a man of action. Take care of business.