Scared as Hell

[hbm]

I am also new here, but would suggest you read the D Remedy book if u haven't already.

Also- I agree that you finding a job even if its part time would be ideal. It will probably help your self esteem and make you feel good to be more independent. It may also help your husband see you in a more positive life.

You should be supportive and NOT put the hammer down. But at the same time you don't want to be clingy and needy or you will push him further away. You should work on getting a life of your own and finding some new hobbies or spending time with friends. You want to be happy around him and not be sulking or appear depressed. This will draw him to you. Give him alittle space and time to figure things out on his own and don't push him.

YOu have come to the right place for advice and support. Hang in there and be patient. I know it is hard. I have to remind myself of this every day.