Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

Seeing H last night didn't unsettle me as much as it used to. Planning on another day with no contact, although I should e-mail him about changing the visitation schedule. Right now we meet during the week at 8 p.m., DS and I get home close to 8:30 and bed is 9 or later. He needs that half hour to settle down and unwind.

Well, that's not going to work so well once school starts in two weeks so I want to change from meeting at 8 to meeting at 7:30 so DS can be in bed for 8:30. Ideally we would meet at 7 so DS could get in bed by 8 but I'm not expecting a positive response on that. I'll start with it and see how it goes but will push for the 7:30 time if I meet resistance on the 7:00 meeting time.

I do all things regarding DS through e-mail so I have written proof of what I said and what H replied. And I'm on vacation all next week where I do not have easy access to my e-mail. We come back next Friday and school starts the following Wednesday. I might wait to e-mail him tomorrow so that today can be dark.