I guess I have not felt very manly these days. In society being a man having spousal and child support just is not looked at very favorably.
LSG, as we are both in the SAHD role I can relate to this. I am have a very hard time finding a job and each day that goes by and there's no call it takes a little more away. I hate to think of it as a mistake staying home since it allowed me to spend so much tme with the kids, but I believe it is a large part of what broke my M.
I'll pray we both get a job soon so we can take care of our kids.