So.... Why were you available to have dinner with her in the house? You should be out GALing, making plans you don't tell her about and not just sitting around being available when she decides she wants to spend time with you. Don't mean to sound harsh, but that is what you want to strive for--


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.