My God, if Goodbye My Lover (Blunt) played while I was anywhere with my W in our current sitch, fuhgettaboutit. How did you hold it together, man?

My guess is W will say "no, not ready for that yet." but I don't think the asking will set things back much if I avoid being all melty man when asking her and act like the turn down isn't that big a deal.

Incidentally, I keep trying to read between the lines and can't figure out if the below stuff W has said is standard WAS script or if it due to the fact that I had the EA's on her and she is still hurt/walled off from them and hoping to heal or what (or if I should just stop trying to figure it out??):

Be patient with me, don't pressure me (this was earlier on when I was trying to push R, have since stopped)
I'm not ready for that YET
Be patient with me, I need a little more time
I just want to be friends RIGHT NOW
I can only be friends with you RIGHT NOW

Is that standard script?

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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