We all hear you on the toughness of coming back to the empty house. My tougher wknds are the ones where I don't have my kiddos and the best thing I've found for me is to GAL my ass off. The more social your GALing can be, the better you will feel and the faster time will pass. Maximize your time out of the house and when you are home have some sort of home improvement project you can turn to as a constructive distraction.
If you can't find some friends to hook up with you on a given day, look up a meetup (meetup.com) in your area. I've done a few of them and they can be fun activities right up your alley where you can make additional friends.
Or if you are not exercising, drop and give me 20 each time the self-pity or wallow vibe sets in. If you don't have a home gym you could buy a few dumbbells and extend your home workout opportunities if your mind is playing tricks on you in the early AM or late PM when you can't get to your regular gym (you are getting to your regular gym, right?).
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
