Also, I'd like to say that about 3 weeks ago I was taking any contact I could get, but now I want more or nothing at all.
I'm definitely taking steps for me, because I have no choice but to better myself and it works. I feel a lot better after my downer this last weekend and just realize that I have to create my boundaries so I can successfully detach. However, I still love my W and I'm trying to fix that part I screwed up on which in a nutshell was neglect because of the "little boy" in me.
