Thanks for the info Pup. I was on that site earlier.
I feel I should continue to put it all on the table. Last attempt to R. If she quickly says no then I will no she doesn't see a future in us. If she is hesitant than maybe that could be a door unclosed yet and worth looking into.
I didn't come this far to give up.
Glad the guys put in their opinions... I was about to pull me a big ole piece of lumber to swing atcha! lol
They are so right... doing anything other than signing right now will be seen as spineless and controlling. Asking her to reconcile will just prove to her that you haven't moved at all.
I know you realize that by now--I just thought I'd chime in with the female perspective here.
Keep on steppin' my friend.
And CYA while you are doing it, kay?
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formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.