LRT, I'm very sorry to hear that there are problems with the pregnancy. You obviously have a lot on your mind right now. It's sad your husband can't support you through this; I hope you have others who can.
When husbands react to sexual rejection with anger and lashing out, as yours seems to, I always supsect that the anger is a cover for -- or expression of -- painful feelings of rejection. The problem may not be so much that your husband is very HD but that he takes your rejection very personally. He sees it not as a problem of you lacking desire but as your lacking desire for him. Paradoxically, however, husbands who need their wives to sexually desire them in order to feel self-worth do not want to believe that their wives may simply have low libido, because that means they will never get the affirmation they desperately need; so they choose to believe that you are merely being selfish and withholding, and they punish you for it. Could that be the case with your husband?
