Romantics are trouble! I am also drawn to these characters.

I get your reasoning on all this; you are dead right to want a partner you can depend on. That's not WH at the moment, maybe never.
But if you drop the rope, and he decides he wants to reconcile in 3 months time, then you will be in good position to know if it's what YOU want.

I like the simplicity of this: "If a man tells you he doesn't want to be in the relationship, he doesn't."

My husband told me that for the last 8 months... took him being on the plane bound for Europe to live with OW to believe it. See how much smarter you are than me!!!

Sleep well, G. Big day.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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