imLin is correct...most judges will favor the wife. Either way, I would not worry about it. I know...I know...it is hard (FTR - I may be thrown to the wolves) but what is worrying about it going to do. Nothing - except get you in a tizzy.
IMO - your L should be giving you some guidance here. If you don't want the house then sell the fuc*er - A house is not a home (luther vandross)...it is only 4 walls dear. A home is where you raise you kids...is where you spend time with your grandkids..it is where YOU feel safe....where you are happy.
If I were you..I would start creating a budget for myself...It will make you realize how much is in YOUR control.
You sound scared Pun...don't be..you sound defeated....don't be.
Who defines Pun...who is Pun...
I keep telling you this shi* is not over until YOU say it is...act that way girl..
Your better than this...your stronger than this!
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans