Here's a story...of a very sad lady

[Faith2010]

A friend emailed him about boundaries, because he is just coming over to the house when he wants and she thinks that isn't fair to me.

Is this the same friend that visited this past weekend? You might want to ask her to not e-mail him regarding your relationship, boundaries etc... as you should be the one talking to him about it (unless you asked her to).

All in all it might be better if you don't spend 12 hours in the car with him...it would be hard. If you feel like ripping his eyes out now, imagine what you'll be feeling after 12 hours?

If you can't drive at night, then don't. Drive up the next day. If he misses the game, oh well. This is his choice to turn all your lives upside down. Let him deal with the consequences...you do what's best for you and the kids. (especially that niece of mine!)