I did start in newcomers. Learned alot about DBing ,then when W came back home I Quit, then came here. My counseler ,at the time W was gone, said I was doing very well and all she was doing was listening to me. This after about 2 mo. worth. Trying to get closer to my wife has been going on for years now. Then she tells me turned to OM because I wasn't there for her.
