Punkin...I will tell you that many judges are sympathetic to the wife...especially if there are children at home or the marriage was long-term and not her wanting...
So the house maybe more your decision then his...and at least if you get it, re-fi, then YOU can sell it if you want to!
Don't let the date work you into the ground...you have time...just relax...work on you...be strong...and you will know if/when the time is right to approach H with a more clear proposal about the future...remember, I waited until 3 days before the D would have been finalized!
